Not every couple celebrates their love with a sappy quote. Sometimes it’s put best in your own special way. Simply said it does have great meaning but love is so vast, and so are the ways to profess it. How each person receives love is different as well. Saying “I love you” comes in many different forms… (more…)
Pretty soon it will be inescapable, everywhere you look you’ll see the color red and everything you hear will be laced with talk about love. Valentine’s Day is coming! There will be countless offers for flowers, candies, and teddy bears but it’s quite possible that none of those things, on their own, will come close to the gift you’re looking to give. If the person you’re getting the Valentine’s gift for is so special, why not get a gift to match? (more…)
If we were to tell you that this coming Valentine’s Day, you could make your sweetheart happier than she has ever been in her life just by buying a certain something, would you believe us? No? Good. That probably means you’re a realist, so you and yours just might have a happier Valentine’s Day as a result. Just make sure your honey is on the same page!
According to 2013 data from a segment of Nielsen’s Twitter TV Rating service, women Tweet about Valentine’s Day about twice as much as men do. But men are twice as likely to have negative things to say about the holiday—about 22% of the time that they take to Twitter about it.
Why the grumbling? Perhaps because this day is inherently pressure-filled for couples,
and nothing says I love you like an obligatory gift, right? Actually, the kinds of gifts couples exchange span a huge spectrum of dollar-values and symbolism points. That means expectations can be vastly varied, too. So, while it’s meant to celebrate love, V-Day is ripe for disappointing our romantic partners.
We think the secret to a happy Valentine’s Day is for both people in the relationship to talk ahead of time about expectations. Don’t let a sense of obligation get the best of you. You don’t have to have a formal sit-down, but take a minute to discuss together how significant the holiday is or isn’t to each of you. Because if Jane is expecting to be surprised with a 7-day Alaskan cruise, and John is planning to give her a stuffed bear from the CVS aisle, there’s probably going to be hell to pay.
This isn’t to say you have to show all your cards, but it does mean that the more in sync a couple is before Valentine’s Day, the better they’re likely to fare on the 14th. Consider a 2004 study conducted at Arizona State University, that showed couples were more than two-and-a-half times more likely to break up during the week before and the week after V-Day, compared with other times of the year. Drilling further down into the data, researchers noted that couples already under duress were the most likely to fall apart during these two weeks. See? Valentine’s Day can be rough on lovers.
While getting your expectations in check, just remember that Valentine’s Day is an opportunity to put a smile on your sweetie’s face and a spring in her step. Completely skipping that opportunity out of mere principle is probably not a great idea. Resist becoming the V-Day equivalent of the Grinch and instead figure out how to make it a nice day for both of you. Whether you exchange cards, chocolates, or diamonds, you should both go to bed happy that night, feeling at least as loved and cherished as you did on the 13th, and heck, why not a little more?
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Did you know that the Pantone Corporation has a tribe of color gurus who decide every year what the Color of the Year should be? And the color isn’t arbitrarily chosen at their whimsy? These specialists comb the world for color influences to guide their predictions, looking at everything from current technology to traveling art collections to major sporting events. This year the Pantone Color of the Year is a pinkish-mauve purple named Radiant Orchid. We think it looks a lot like amethyst: (more…)